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It’s National Orgasm Month

21 Oct
National Orgasm MonthFew would argue that the orgasm is the ultimate gratification. It’s exhilarating, euphoric and unlike anything of this earth. The actual experience varies from person to person. However, with patience and an open mind, nearly everyone is capable of achieving orgasm. Read on for some tips to help you get orgasm-fit!

Practice breathing techniques. The body often tenses up right before climax, constraining oxygen. When oxygen is reduced, blood flow weakens. As a result, the orgasm is shortened or never achieved. By performing regular breathing exercises, you can train yourself to breathe properly at all times. This will result in higher oxygen saturation; improved blood flow; and stronger, longer, more frequent orgasms.

Work your PC muscles. The pelvic floor muscles automatically convulse during orgasm. By flexing them during sex, you can prolong the pleasurable contractions and, in some cases, multiply the fun. Strengthen your PC muscles with a kegel exerciser suitable to your ability level—Kegel Balls, Pleasure Pearls or Ben-Wa Balls.

Follow a Mediterranean-style diet. Studies have shown that a diet high in fruits, vegetables, nuts, whole grains, olive oil and fish, and low in red meat, can have a positive effect on sexual function, including one’s ability to orgasm. There are a variety of sexually nutritious recipes available in “The New Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook.

Explore your body. How can you expect anyone else to please you if you can’t please yourself? Take time out to get to know your body. Become acquainted with your own anatomy and what feels good. Try stimulating the various areas around the genitals, including the clitoris, G-spot and vulva. For self-pleasuring tips and techniques, check out the masturbation guide, “Tickle Your Fancy.”


  • The average female orgasm can last anywhere from six to ten seconds. Some women even experience a 20-second orgasm.
  • According to researchers, it’s possible for some women to orgasm as many as 100 times per hour.
  • The average woman needs about 20 minutes of arousal time before her clitoris is sensitive enough to respond to stimulation and begin building toward climax. (Apply a dab of Pure Satisfaction® to enhance sensitivity).
  • The most likely time for a woman to experience sexual pleasure is during her menstrual period. This is due to the increase in blood circulation around the groin area.
  • Orgasms have been shown to curb the appetite; improve brain function, fat metabolism, and the immune and cardiovascular systems; and promote healthy skin.

“How can I describe to you, a man, what it feels like to a woman? Think of a light switch with a rheostat control. As you begin to turn it on, the bulb begins to get bright, then brighter, and brighter and finally in a blinding flash is fully lit. It is so good.” – Marilyn Monroe

Say Hello to My Little Friend! How to Introduce Your Partner to Passion Toys

1 May

Introduce Passion Toys

While you may have been using vibrators, dildos and other sex toys to pamper and pleasure yourself for years, it’s quite possible that your current lover has never been exposed to such devices. Everyone’s level of sexploration is different. So before you try to incorporate We Vibe 4 (or any other toy) into your lovemaking, don’t assume anything. If you and your partner have never used a toy while having sex, talk about it first, rather than just surprising your playmate during an intimate moment. Here are some tips:

  1. Begin the conversation by showing your partner a Passion Parties catalog. Seeing photos of sensual toys and products in the comfort of your home may be less intimidating than seeing them in person at a public sex toy shop.
  2. Reassure your lover that a toy is merely an enhancement to your love making experience and that your partner is completely irreplaceable. The use of a toy would never take the place of your special playmate. You know that, but make sure your lover realizes it, too.
  3. Using a sex toy requires that both lovers trust one another. Therefore, incorporating a c-ring or vibrator into your lovemaking repertoire takes your intimacy to a whole new level. So besides increasing your sexual pleasure by using a Passion Toy while making love, you’ll also be deepening your romantic feelings for one another.
  4. Start out small and slow. Now is not the time to whip out OMG. Instead, begin with a bullet and demonstrate to your lover how, where and why you use it.
  5. Be flexible. Now, we’re not talking about sex positions here. We mean, be open-minded. What you think is the perfect toy to play with may not be something that turns on your partner. And that’s okay. Talk to one another openly, honestly and without judgment. Through dialogue, you two will find a toy that meets both your needs.
  6. There is no deadline. Don’t think that just because you have opened the door to communicating about sex toys (and congratulations to you for doing so) that you must begin your exploration that night or the next day. Your lover will probably need time to allow the introduction to percolate. Give your partner all the time necessary. Passion Parties and our sensual products are not going anywhere!

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Adventures in Anal Play

22 Apr


Exploring the backdoor of romance is a common and acceptable form of lovemaking among today’s modern couples. Anal play can offer a new and different pleasure sensation; “naughty” excitement due to its “taboo” reputation; trust-building and communication between partners; and, of course, triple pleasure when combined with clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

The anus is interconnected with the pelvic muscles and holds a large concentration of nerve endings. This makes it an extremely sensitive area. And, just as the PC muscles contract rhythmically during orgasm, so do the anal muscles. With the right kind of anal stimulation, women can experience unparalleled pleasure too.

While anal play is not for everyone, many have a bit of curiosity when it comes to this type of booty bliss. But (no pun intended), this curiosity is often accompanied by questions and hesitations.

There are two things to keep in mind when it comes to anal play:

  • Penile penetration isn’t your only option. If you find yourself feeling shy, begin with rimming whereby the outer edges of the anal opening are stimulated. Once you feel more comfortable, you can advance to penetration with a finger or a toy before moving on to anal intercourse.
  • The pleasure goes both ways. Men can also enjoy anal penetration due to their version of the G-spot – the prostate gland, which can be found and massaged along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body.

Feeling adventurous? Follow these tips to get started:

  1. Freshen up – Be clean and confident by taking a warm bubble bath infused with Refreshing Bath & Shower Crème.
  2. Start aroused – Stimulate your favorite hot spots, such as the clitoris and G-spot, before you even start. Pure Satisfaction® and G-Spot Crème can help.
  3. Experiment solo – Before choosing to introduce anal play to your partner, try a few sessions alone. Use a beginner-friendly stimulator with a graduated tip like Jet Black, so you can work your way into it.
  4. Relax – When exposed to any kind of anal penetration, the body’s natural reaction is to tense up… immediately prompting the sphincter muscles around the anus to close. Focus your breath and visualize pleasurable sensations.
  5. Lube up – Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating or elastic, and its opening is much smaller. You’ll need a considerable amount of lubricant in and around the anus, and on the item to be inserted. Use a water-based lubricant with a rich, velvety texture, such as LUX Cream Lubricant; or the long-lasting, Silicone Lubricant. Reapply as needed.
  6. Ease into it – Start by massaging the opening of the anus in circular motions. Once relaxed and slightly stimulated, gently press the anal ring so that it opens naturally. As you work your way inside, mind the curved angle. Readjust as needed.
  7. Be smart – Only insert items that are 100% clean; and specifically designed for anal penetration. There are many options to choose from, including the simple Playful Plug and the multi-stimulating Triple Tickle Dolphin. (Anal toys should never be used for vaginal penetration.) Clean your toys directly after use with Clean & Simple™ Adult Toy Cleanser.

Three Sexual Myths You Should Stop Believing Now

17 Jan



Sexual myths exist in just about every culture and country in the world. Some of these misconceptions have perpetuated for hundreds, or even thousands, of years. There are so many that it can be difficult to differentiate between fact and fiction.

Here, our Passion Parties experts dispel three common sexual myths of the 21st Century.

1. There is no such thing as a G-spot.
While there’s still scientific debate over what exactly the G-spot is, its presence has been widely accepted.  What we know for certain is that the G-spot is a fleshy section located one to three inches inside of the vagina on the front wall, and its exact placement may move over time.

Formally known as the Gräfenberg Spot, this source of incredible pleasure was named after Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg. He was the first modern physician to substantiate its significance in female sexual pleasure.

Scientists have yet to confirm whether the G-spot is a group of glands and ducts clustered around the urethra, or the point at which the nerves of the clitoris intersect with vaginal tissue on their way to the spinal column. Some even believe that the G-spot is a female prostate gland because, when stimulated, it may provoke an orgasmic ejaculation – a release of clear fluid through the urethra. Not all women ejaculate when experiencing a G-spot orgasm. But, if you do, don’t worry.  The fluid will not stain the sheets.

Tip for locating your G-spot:
Lie comfortably on your back and insert a finger or two, with your palm up toward the ceiling. Make the “come hither” motion with your finger(s). The G-spot tends to swell when massaged, much like the erectile tissue of a penis. Our experts recommend that you become aroused prior to the search, as the G-spot area will be easier to locate.

As you explore the inside of your vagina, you’ll notice that the walls feel much like the inside of the cheeks of your mouth.  Once you feel a fleshy area that’s texture resembles the roof of your mouth, but rougher, you’ve discovered your G-spot. (Congratulations!)

Don’t worry if your first try is unsuccessful. This is a search worth much dedication. Keep in mind, too, that you may encounter a feeling that you have to urinate. This is quite common, and actually a good sign that you’re on your way to achieving G-spot orgasm.  In fact, that sensation can be the prequel to female ejaculation. Our experts recommend that you use the restroom prior to G-spot play, so that you relieve any anxiety that would arise when you have that urination sensation.

You may even want to ask your partner to help you locate your G-spot. Or, you may prefer to go it alone.  Both options are equally valid; however, whether alone or with a significant other, enhancing your awareness of the G-spot can be assisted with the right sensual toys and Passion Parties’ exclusive RomantaTherapy® G-Spot Crème.  The unique product contains rich ingredients that interact with your G-spot and promote a higher awareness of sexual sensitivity, enabling greater erotic pleasure.

If you would like to maximize your G-spot experience further, incorporate one of Passion Parties’ many G-spot vibrators, such as the new Genie. Its specially curved tip is designed to target “that” spot.

2. Only homosexual males enjoy anal play.
The mind-blowing orgasm that can result from a prostate massage does not discriminate. Many men enjoy this type of pleasure, regardless of race, age or sexual orientation. Unfortunately, it’s still taboo in some cultures. But, it’s beginning to change, as more men are opening up to a whole new world of bliss.

Also referred to as the “He-spot,” the prostate gland is a small gland, about the size and shape of a quail’s egg.  Nestled in the male pubic bone and surrounded by the pelvic muscles, the prostate gland responds to pressure applied through the rectum.  When massaged correctly, it can generate amazing orgasms.

What many don’t know is that prostate massage has been used for centuries, and for two purposes: intense sexual pleasure, and the promotion of health in the prostate gland.

Some men experience crashing orgasms when their prostate gland is stimulated, while others do not. Some men don’t enjoy the sensation at all, while others could take it or leave it. If you are unsure about your lover’s feelings toward this type of sensation, try it!  (Worst case scenario: He does not like it, and you never try it again.)  Just be sure to discuss it with him first, and get his go-ahead.

Passion Parties offers many prostate massage toys, which can assist you or your partner in stimulating the He-spot, including our oldie, but goodie Playful Plug – especially designed for the first-time anal explorer.

Tip for stimulating your man’s prostate gland:
First, cleanse his anal area, as well as your finger or the toy to be used. Ensure that he is relaxed prior to anal play. (Our experts recommend that you relax him by providing a full body massage, followed by manual stimulation of his penis.)

Once your man is relaxed, apply a generous amount of lubricant to the anal area. Reach down between his legs and insert either an index finger or the Male G-Spot Massager into his anus and press forward, in a firm motion. The prostate is located on the front part of the rectal wall.

Press gently.  If your lover enjoys the sensation, press a little more firmly. Your partner might find pleasure in a “shunting” sensation, experienced by smooth, rapid insertion and removal of the finger or toy.

If, at any point, your man experiences discomfort, ease off a bit. Should he experience pain or express displeasure, immediately stop.

It can take a few times to get used to the sensations associated with anal play. Always respect his boundaries.

We recommend you apply our new and exclusive He-Spot Gel, designed to intensify his pleasure by enhancing blood flow to the area.

3. Simultaneous orgasm never happens.
While it’s certainly not a guaranteed or particularly common occurrence, enjoying shared orgasms with your partner at the exact same time is possible to achieve. However, it can take some work to get it right…

After all, understanding our own orgasms can be a complex matter… Add the orgasms of a partner into the equation, and you’ve got one Rubik’s Cube of sexual confusion! For those who struggle to orgasm on a regular basis, orgasm (and sex in general) can be a stressful endeavor. And, for new couples, there is a learning curve associated with understanding one another’s wants and needs, and then building a fulfilling sexual relationship…

What we’re trying to get at is that you should not strive for simultaneous orgasm until you and your partner overcome your sexual quirks and any accompanied anxiety. That’s not to say that those who don’t orgasm on a regular basis shouldn’t pursue simultaneous orgasm. By all means, go ahead! But, if you’re stressed out about sex, don’t have a clear mindset, or not yet at a comfortable level with your partner, you probably won’t achieve any kind of orgasm at all.

Are you ready to add “simultaneous orgasm” to your life-list? Good for you! Just remember that it’s not the end-all, be-all of sexual pleasure. If you achieve one, fine.  If not, that’s okay, too – there are plenty of other sexual adventures to check off your list.

Tip for improving your odds of achieving simultaneous orgasm:
Make it an evening of mutual pleasure. The experience is about both of you.  Start out by showing one another how you like to be touched. You go first; your partner goes next.

Follow, with simultaneous foreplay. Stimulate your partner while he/she stimulates you at the same exact time.  Don’t think about your next move.  Just focus on the moment.  Enjoy every sensation.

Remember that it’s easy for men to reach climax before women, so be sure to have your male partner communicate to you if he’s getting close to orgasm. If he is, stop manually stimulating him for a while, and just let him focus on you.  As he’s stimulating you, let him know how it feels.  (This experience is still about both of you, even if only one of you is receiving sexual attention. Verbally communicate to your partner, how amazing he is.)

You may experience dual-orgasm during manual stimulation. Whether you do or don’t, we still recommend you move on to the next step: intercourse.

Before you slip your partner inside of you, check that you are both well lubricated. (We love the Passion Parties exclusive water-based Revelation™ Lubricant because it can be reactivated with just a few drops of water.)   Incorporate one of our sexual enhancement products, like We-Vibe II or Progressor.  We-Vibe II is the first-ever toy to be worn inside during intercourse, and stimulates both you and your man at the same time.  Progressor is a vibrating c-ring that helps him maintain an erection and delay orgasm, while delivering sweet vibrations to your clitoris. Just as we advised above regarding manual stimulation, have your male partner communicate with you if he’s close to reaching orgasm during intercourse.

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15 Best Sex Tips of the Year!

14 Nov

Kick off 2012 with a Bang with these awesome tips thanks to this months cosmo! 🙂

1. Try Pure Satisfaction Enhancement Gel. The Doctors dubbed it an “orgasm in a tube.”

2. Cosmo’s 2011 Man Panel agreed that the hottest sext is ” I need you now!”

3. Push that exercise ball up against the wall, have him sit on it, and bounce on him.

4. A Trojan sex poll reveled the most adventurous place to have had sex is in the car. Abuse the backseat of your vehicle!

5. Tilt yor hips up during missionary. (Like with our Jazz Liberator Pillow). This increases the chances he’ll hit your G-spot.

6. Dab drops of lube all over his penis. Use your fingers to connect the dots until he’s completely slicked up. I suggest any of these: Lubricants.

7. Sit on the edge of the washing machine, and wrap your legs around his waist as he enters you. Helpful hint: The cotton cycle provide the strongest vibrations.

8. Let him love your nipples: Scientists discovered  nip sensations activate the same area of the brain as sensations from the vagina. (Nipple Nibblers helps!)

9. Take him down in the middle of your fave show. Research reveals that guys wish their sex lives were more spontaneous.

10. Squirt some lube on your breasts and use them to oil up him penis!

11. Use an intercourse designed vibrator like the we vibe II!

12. Make a sex bucket list, and check off one new thing once a month. Researchers found that long term couples who switched things up in bed remained intensely in love.

13. Initiate sex, the biggest complain from men is that their ladies rarely make the first move.

14. Climb on top on him then lean back, resting an elbow on his legs. Rub yourself up and down on his penis until he’s erect.

15. Jump him in the shower- a Cosmo poll found that 48% of guys think about sex most while sudsing up.

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