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Believe in Yourself

18 May

It always amazes being in this business how little women think of themselves and confidence within themselves among most is pretty lacking. It is sad really. It also sets a fire in me about why my business is so important to help empower women in and out of the bedroom that they too are worth it! Every woman deserves to be happy! Every woman deserves to treat herself to a girls’ night and some fabulous items! Everyone woman deserves…dare I say it… mind blowing ORGASMS!!

I often see women struggle in their mind to spend even $20 on themselves for shaving creme, let alone a $100 toy that will rock their world. So many women struggle to treat themselves and they shouldn’t! If their kid wanted a new whatever or their husband wanted something, they would be the first to go out and buy it for them…. yet they deserve nothing. Stop that! You deserve to treat yourself ladies. Don’t sacrifice your wants and needs so often that they don’t matter. You deserve whatever you want! You are worth it! Don’t let anyone tell you and different!

This really is apparent when women want to start their own business with me. They want to be a consultant and I can see so many fabulous qualities in these women I talk to that they so often do not see or believe in themselves. They will put everything else in front of them starting their new venture to earn more money, have more flexibility, freedoms, and opportunities. The kids, their husband, the car broke, the dog is sick, etc. above them making the investment in themselves to start their own business. The little voice in their head that says all the negative stuff starts yelling at them about how they can’t. Shut up and out that voice of self doubt, I am here to tell you I have seen it over and over again, you can do anything you set your mind and actions to!

Make yourself a priority ladies in and out of the bedroom. You will find yourself happier, more confident, and satisfied with life all around once you feel like you matter. You are special and you deserve it! The shaving creme, the vibrator, and the business kit, whatever it is that you want, you should have it! Whatever you want to do, you can do it! I think you will be damn good at it too! Ohhh…. and the orgasms…they will get better all the time!

believe in all that you are


Spring and Summer Sexy Skin!

23 May

sexy summer skin

Spring is here, and summer is right around the corner. You know what that means? It’s the season of skin, and baring as much of it as possible. Short shorts, bathing suits, tank tops – it’s skin, skin, skin. And with exposing so much of it, of course you want it to look as sexy and radiant as possible! So how do you get spring and summer sexy skin? You’ve come to the right place!

  • Drink lots of water. By drinking the recommended 6-8 glasses of water per day, your body will flush out toxins in your body, giving it a natural glow.
  • Stay out of the sun (and tanning bed). Excessive sun exposure can be really rough on your skin and body. It can cause sunburn, skin damage, skin cancer (the most common form of cancer) and heat stroke. And tanning beds aren’t any better. The ultraviolet (UV) radiation from both the sun and tanning bulbs can lead to premature skin aging, wrinkles, brown spots and more. Embrace your natural skin tone, and wear it with confidence!
  • Use sunscreen. No matter how much you try to stay out of the sun, you can’t completely avoid it, and nor should you. The sun actually provides a much needed dose of Vitamin D, which can help fight different cancers, heart disease, osteoporosis, multiple sclerosis and many other conditions and diseases. However, it can be damaging without proper protection. So make sure you’re applying sunscreen when you are out in the sun. Also, check to see if your face cream has SPF in it, and if it doesn’t, now might be the time to try a new product that does.
  • Use RomantaTherapy® products to help make your skin glow! Making skin look its best takes time and work, but you can limit some of that prep time with RomantaTherapy products. Start your routine with the Smoothing Sugar Scrub. By using the Smooth Sugar Scrub two to three times per week, you’ll remove some of that dead, dry skin on the top layer of your body, exposing a conditioned, nourished and revitalized layer. Then apply the Soft & Silky™ Shaving Crème.

    Work the cream in small circles to the area of skin you want to shave. This ensures that the sensitive hairs are supported by the product and readied for shaving. Soft & Silky Shaving Crème is enriched with Jojoba oil and Keratin, providing a longer-lasting, smooth-as-a-baby’s-bottom shave. What’s better than that!
    Unfortunately though, sometimes a good shave just isn’t enough. Our skin can still get irritated from a dull razor or from the material of our clothes rubbing against the sensitive, freshly-shaved skin. It’s always such a bummer when we spend the time shaving, just to see red skin or bumps an hour later. Thankfully, Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist reduces irritation after shaving and keeps skin bump-free. Spritz your freshly-shaved skin with this moisturizing after shave to create a protective barrier between skin and clothing and to reduce any irritation. And finally, finish off the process with RomantaTherapy’s Toning Body Butter. This thick, yet non-greasy, deep-conditioning moisturizer is enhanced with caffeine to assist in cellulite reduction and skin rejuvenation. Now it really doesn’t get better than that!

The most beautiful skin is that of a beautiful and confident woman, but the tips above will certainly help make that skin glow. So rub on that sunscreen, drink some water and go show off that beautiful skin this summer!

Featured products: RomantaTherapy® Smoothing Sugar Scrub (Item 2114 • $29.00 US/Item 2114C • $29.00 CDN), Soft & Silky™ Shaving Crème (Item 2098 • $13.00 US/Item 2098C • $16.50 CDN), Soft & Silky™ After Shave Protection Mist (Item 2069 • $15.50 US/Item 2069C • $18.50 CDN) and Toning Body Butter (Item 2117 • $29.00 US/Item 2117C • $29.00 CDN). To purchase any of these products, please contact me, your Passion Consultant. Please visit my Passion Parties website at www.FLToyParties.com, and click on Shop Online to place your order now.

Does seduction come naturally for you?

20 Mar

Or, could you use a little help? Keep reading for tips and tricks on seducing your mate.

1. If you don’t think you’re a seductress, fake it.

Look, most women don’t climb out of bed each morning feeling like Marilyn Monroe. But you can pretend… Visualize who you think is the perfect seductress and act like her. Walk like her. Dress like her. Even talk like her. Your partner already thinks you’re the sexiest woman in the world. Now it’s time to convince yourself.

2. Begin Early.

Rather than wait until the end of the day to seduce your mate, start flirting first thing in the mroning. Begin with a soft kiss before you shower. And before you part for the day, kiss him again- only this time, use some tongue. You could even give him a playful pat or pinch on his rear end as he exits the door.

3. Send him a love note.

During the day, send him a text message, email or call him to let him know you’re thinking of him. This is your chance to express  your desire and your plans. He’ll know what to expect, so if he intended on working late, chances are your message will change his mind. Keep you love note seductive, yet clean, to avoid any possible embarrassment, especially if he’s at work.

4. Prepare yourself for the event.

Do what you need to do to make yourself feel sexy. This may mean a relaxing bath with RomantaTherapy Sensous Bath Salts, followed by an application of  Toning Body Butter. And, a dab of Pure Satisfaction on your genitals will definitely motivate you to get into character.

5. Seduce with confidence.

The key to successful seduction is is feeling good about yourself and knowing that your mate is into yourself and knowing that your mate is into you. First, apply some pure instinct to your neck, wrists and back of knees to lift your confidence and cover your skin with sexual attractants. Next, wear an outfit that makes you feel sexy and cute. This could be your favorite dress or the Rose Lace Bodystocking, which is romantic yet provocative.  The moment you and your mate reunite, shower him with affection and compliments. Smile. Laugh. Look into his eyes deeply and run a finger up and down his arm as you two share the moments of your day.

6. Take initiative.

Your partner wants to feel wanted by you. Don’t wait for him to make the first move. Take him by the hand and guide him to the bedroom. Keep plenty of Revelation Lubricant on-hand and a toy or two, such as the We-Vibe II or Double Bullet, to enhance and maintain the excitement of your lovemaking.

Did you know that SEX can help you achieve your New Year’s Resolutions?

4 Jan

Yes…you heard me! Sex can help you with those hopeful 2012 New Years Resolutions of Yours

1.Resolution: Promote Better Health

Engaging in regular sexual activity– about three or more times per week- may reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke; lower blood pressure and cholesterol; boost the immune system and fight disease; increase levels of estrogen; slow aging; support a longer life; and much more!

Commit to sex as part of your regular health regimen by keeping things interesting. 52 Passion Positions offers a different sex position for every week of the year!

2.Resolution: Improve Fitness

One Passionate sack session can burn around 200 calories or morre…and that’s not all. Sex has been shown to increase muscle tone, and provide a great workout for the pelvis, thighs, abs, buttocks, and arms.

Challenge your partner to a more muscle-specific “sexercise” with the Liberator Jaz Mini!

3. Resolution: Manage Stress

The reduction of anxiety responses in the brain, release of feel-good hormones known as endorphins, the effects of emotional intimacy and touch, and the lowering of blood pressure are some of the many reasons why sex is a powerful stress reliever. Studies have even shown that sex can result in a positive, more relaxed mood the following day.

Start your day on a happier note by masturbating or making love as soon as you wake up. Apply a dab of Pure Satisfaction and RomantaTherapy Sensual Warming Lubricant to transition from sleepy-time to pleasure-time!  🙂

4. Resolution: Improve your Relationship

Intimacy is a critical component of a strong, healthy long-term union and, for most couples, this includes sexual intimacy. It’s common for longtime lovers to experience a romantic rut, especially during the mature stage of their relationship. When that happens, it’s each partners responsibility to reignite the spark.

Make sex a priority. Sit down and communicate your sexual needs with your partner and vice-versa. Relationships are all about compromise, and sex is no exception. Together, create a schedule that works for both of you. Not only will your sex life improve, but each of you will feel valued by each other. And, don’t let a lack of libido stop you. Sex is the solution to most sexual problems, and practice makes perfect.

5. Resolution: Be Confident

Feeling good is a priority that all successful, self-assured women share. Regardless of how full their schedule is, they always make time for pleasure, including the sexual kind.  Confident women know that they hold the power and are, thus, proactive in achieving what they want. They take the initiative to discover their desires and aren’t shy about communicating to their partner.

You can become more confident by taking responsibility for your own pleasure and knowing that you deserve to feel good! Toss your own inhibitions out the window and release your inner Passion Diva!  The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex is packed with information that can help you do just that. This year, make a commitment to your pleasure.

Need I say more?!? Now get BUSY!!

Discover your Passion Diva…

23 Sep

Are you lacking confidence in the bedroom? Dig out the Passion Diva inside of you! Everyone has a Passion Diva inside of them. I’m not talking about doing parties, hosting a party, or even toys. I’m talking about Great Sex, mind blowing, multi orgasmic sex, everyone is capable of.

According to the Passion Parties guide to Great Sex, Passion diva Principle #8, “Your most important Sex Organ is your brain!” How you feel about yourself, your body, your partner, and your life in general will all affect the kind of sex you have. Pamper yourself, love yourself, get into something that makes you feel pretty and confident. So here is what you need to know as a Passion Diva…

1. Sex is good for you

2. Soul mates are made, not born

3. Even if you are a “good girl”, you get to have great sex!

4. If you take responsibility for your pleasure, your pleasure will pay you back.

5. Being sexy is in how you feel, not how you look.

6. You need all 5 senses to make sex great.

7. For sex at night, foreplay starts in the morning.

8. Your most important sex organ is your brain.

9. Your most important sex toy is your tongue (and We’re talking about TALKING!)

10.If you want great sex, bring the right woman to the bedroom.

Pamper yourself and prepare to get your sexy on. Wear something sexy and keep this in mind, he is not looking at your cellulite or stretchmarks, few extra pounds, leave your inhibitions,  insecurities, and everything else at the door. It is your time, with him, have fun! He is not thinking about what is bad about you, he is thinking all good thoughts, think the same. Tell him what you want, what you like, and what feels good. It is way more of a turn on to have feedback!

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