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It’s National Orgasm Month

21 Oct
National Orgasm MonthFew would argue that the orgasm is the ultimate gratification. It’s exhilarating, euphoric and unlike anything of this earth. The actual experience varies from person to person. However, with patience and an open mind, nearly everyone is capable of achieving orgasm. Read on for some tips to help you get orgasm-fit!

Practice breathing techniques. The body often tenses up right before climax, constraining oxygen. When oxygen is reduced, blood flow weakens. As a result, the orgasm is shortened or never achieved. By performing regular breathing exercises, you can train yourself to breathe properly at all times. This will result in higher oxygen saturation; improved blood flow; and stronger, longer, more frequent orgasms.

Work your PC muscles. The pelvic floor muscles automatically convulse during orgasm. By flexing them during sex, you can prolong the pleasurable contractions and, in some cases, multiply the fun. Strengthen your PC muscles with a kegel exerciser suitable to your ability level—Kegel Balls, Pleasure Pearls or Ben-Wa Balls.

Follow a Mediterranean-style diet. Studies have shown that a diet high in fruits, vegetables, nuts, whole grains, olive oil and fish, and low in red meat, can have a positive effect on sexual function, including one’s ability to orgasm. There are a variety of sexually nutritious recipes available in “The New Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook.

Explore your body. How can you expect anyone else to please you if you can’t please yourself? Take time out to get to know your body. Become acquainted with your own anatomy and what feels good. Try stimulating the various areas around the genitals, including the clitoris, G-spot and vulva. For self-pleasuring tips and techniques, check out the masturbation guide, “Tickle Your Fancy.”

BET YOU DIDN’T KNOW THAT…

  • The average female orgasm can last anywhere from six to ten seconds. Some women even experience a 20-second orgasm.
  • According to researchers, it’s possible for some women to orgasm as many as 100 times per hour.
  • The average woman needs about 20 minutes of arousal time before her clitoris is sensitive enough to respond to stimulation and begin building toward climax. (Apply a dab of Pure Satisfaction® to enhance sensitivity).
  • The most likely time for a woman to experience sexual pleasure is during her menstrual period. This is due to the increase in blood circulation around the groin area.
  • Orgasms have been shown to curb the appetite; improve brain function, fat metabolism, and the immune and cardiovascular systems; and promote healthy skin.

“How can I describe to you, a man, what it feels like to a woman? Think of a light switch with a rheostat control. As you begin to turn it on, the bulb begins to get bright, then brighter, and brighter and finally in a blinding flash is fully lit. It is so good.” – Marilyn Monroe

Uncover The Passion

5 Sep

Uncover the Passion of Sensual Massage

Your partner loves a good massage and your partner loves sex. So, why not combine the two for an incredibly intimate event? Just follow the tips below to help you get started.

Research

While you don’t need to enroll in massage school in order to give your special someone a loving, sensual massage, it is important to know what a massage entails. Treat yourself to a professional massage and take mental notes about what feels good to you. If you intend on using an edible massage oil on your lover (and maybe on yourself), know your partner’s favorite flavors – Vanilla, Cherry or maybe Strawberry?

Preparation

Begin by setting the mood using soft light, romantic music, pillows and aromatic candles, such as the Tasty Temptation Massage Candle. Have your partner lie face down. A pillow placed beneath the pelvis and thighs may eliminate strain on the lower back. Because you want your lover to relax and release control, use the Shades of Seduction Eye Mask to cover your partner’s eyes. Removing one of the senses increases your playmate’s stimulation.

The Massage

Massage oil should be warm prior to applying to your partner’s back. If using bottled massage oil, apply it to your own hands first, rubbing your hands together to warm the oil. Better yet, use a soy-based massage candle which melts into warm (not hot) massage oil. The Tasty Temptation Massage Candle is such a candle and includes a mini-spoon so you may delicately drizzle the melted massage oil onto your lover’s back. Or, simply tip the heart-shaped tin to safely pour the warm massage oil directly onto the back. The Tasty Temptation Massage Candle is also lickable and comes in three delectable flavors.

Begin the massage with soft, light strokes before attempting a deeper massage. Use more than your hands for this massage, such as your hair, tongue, breasts and the Tease Me Tickler. Your lover’s level of arousal is an indicator as to whether or not to continue the massage or take matters to the next level of sensual play.

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Say Hello to My Little Friend! How to Introduce Your Partner to Passion Toys

1 May

Introduce Passion Toys

While you may have been using vibrators, dildos and other sex toys to pamper and pleasure yourself for years, it’s quite possible that your current lover has never been exposed to such devices. Everyone’s level of sexploration is different. So before you try to incorporate We Vibe 4 (or any other toy) into your lovemaking, don’t assume anything. If you and your partner have never used a toy while having sex, talk about it first, rather than just surprising your playmate during an intimate moment. Here are some tips:

  1. Begin the conversation by showing your partner a Passion Parties catalog. Seeing photos of sensual toys and products in the comfort of your home may be less intimidating than seeing them in person at a public sex toy shop.
  2. Reassure your lover that a toy is merely an enhancement to your love making experience and that your partner is completely irreplaceable. The use of a toy would never take the place of your special playmate. You know that, but make sure your lover realizes it, too.
  3. Using a sex toy requires that both lovers trust one another. Therefore, incorporating a c-ring or vibrator into your lovemaking repertoire takes your intimacy to a whole new level. So besides increasing your sexual pleasure by using a Passion Toy while making love, you’ll also be deepening your romantic feelings for one another.
  4. Start out small and slow. Now is not the time to whip out OMG. Instead, begin with a bullet and demonstrate to your lover how, where and why you use it.
  5. Be flexible. Now, we’re not talking about sex positions here. We mean, be open-minded. What you think is the perfect toy to play with may not be something that turns on your partner. And that’s okay. Talk to one another openly, honestly and without judgment. Through dialogue, you two will find a toy that meets both your needs.
  6. There is no deadline. Don’t think that just because you have opened the door to communicating about sex toys (and congratulations to you for doing so) that you must begin your exploration that night or the next day. Your lover will probably need time to allow the introduction to percolate. Give your partner all the time necessary. Passion Parties and our sensual products are not going anywhere!

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Get To Know The G-SPOT!

28 Apr

Get to Know the G-Spot!

No, it’s not a myth. The G-spot DOES exist, along with the rumors of its promised pleasure. Here’s everything you ever wanted to know about the G-spot, along with some bonus information you never thought to ask.

What It Is

The debate over what exactly the G-spot is still occurs today. Scientists have yet to definitively decide whether the G-spot is a group of glands and ducts clustered around the urethra or the point at which the nerves of the clitoris intersect with vaginal tissue on their way to the spinal column.

However, there are other experts who believe that the G-spot is a female prostate gland, because when stimulated, it may provoke an orgasmic ejaculation – a release of clear fluid through the urethra. Not all women ejaculate when experiencing a G-spot orgasm. But if you do, don’t worry. The fluid will not stain the sheets.

What we do know for sure is that the G-spot is a fleshy section located one to three inches inside the vagina on the front wall, and its exact placement may move over time. It is named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, the first modern physician to write about the area and substantiate its significance in female sexual pleasure.

How to Find It

Lie comfortably on your back and insert a finger or two, with your palm up toward the ceiling. Make the “come hither” motion with your finger(s). The G-spot tends to swell when massaged, much like the erectile tissue of a penis. If you begin your search after you are already excited or even after having had an orgasm, your G-spot will be that much easier to find.

As you explore the inside of your vagina, you will notice that the walls feel much like the inside of the cheeks of your mouth. When you feel a fleshy area that feels like the roof of your mouth, but with a rougher texture, you have discovered your G-spot.

You may not find it right away, but don’t give up. This is a search worth much dedication. Some women enjoy the exploration with a partner, finding that an extra set of hands makes it easier to find the G-spot. Others prefer to explore alone. Both options are equally valid, however, whether alone or with a significant other, enhancing your awareness of the G-spot can be assisted with the right sensual toys and Passion Parties’ exclusive G-Spot Crème.

G-spot Sensual Products

G-Spot Creme

The first G-spot sensual product you should try is Passion Parties’ exclusive G-spot Crème. This unique enhancer produces a stimulating effect to inspire sensual excitement in the G-spot. The rich ingredients interact with your G-spot to promote a higher awareness of sexual sensitivity, enabling greater erotic pleasure.

G-Spot Toys

In addition to the G-Spot Crème, you should also consider using a sensual toy created specifically for G-spot stimulation. The We-Vibe 4, Velvet Curve and the Lelo® Ina 2 are specially designed for G-spot arousal and enjoyment.

Explore G-spot ecstasy by generously adding some G-Spot Crème onto the end of the Lelo Ina 2, We-Vibe 4 or Velvet Curve in order to increase your awareness of your G-spot and intensify sensitivity.

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Adventures in Anal Play

22 Apr

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Exploring the backdoor of romance is a common and acceptable form of lovemaking among today’s modern couples. Anal play can offer a new and different pleasure sensation; “naughty” excitement due to its “taboo” reputation; trust-building and communication between partners; and, of course, triple pleasure when combined with clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

The anus is interconnected with the pelvic muscles and holds a large concentration of nerve endings. This makes it an extremely sensitive area. And, just as the PC muscles contract rhythmically during orgasm, so do the anal muscles. With the right kind of anal stimulation, women can experience unparalleled pleasure too.

While anal play is not for everyone, many have a bit of curiosity when it comes to this type of booty bliss. But (no pun intended), this curiosity is often accompanied by questions and hesitations.

There are two things to keep in mind when it comes to anal play:

  • Penile penetration isn’t your only option. If you find yourself feeling shy, begin with rimming whereby the outer edges of the anal opening are stimulated. Once you feel more comfortable, you can advance to penetration with a finger or a toy before moving on to anal intercourse.
  • The pleasure goes both ways. Men can also enjoy anal penetration due to their version of the G-spot – the prostate gland, which can be found and massaged along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body.

Feeling adventurous? Follow these tips to get started:

  1. Freshen up – Be clean and confident by taking a warm bubble bath infused with Refreshing Bath & Shower Crème.
  2. Start aroused – Stimulate your favorite hot spots, such as the clitoris and G-spot, before you even start. Pure Satisfaction® and G-Spot Crème can help.
  3. Experiment solo – Before choosing to introduce anal play to your partner, try a few sessions alone. Use a beginner-friendly stimulator with a graduated tip like Jet Black, so you can work your way into it.
  4. Relax – When exposed to any kind of anal penetration, the body’s natural reaction is to tense up… immediately prompting the sphincter muscles around the anus to close. Focus your breath and visualize pleasurable sensations.
  5. Lube up – Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating or elastic, and its opening is much smaller. You’ll need a considerable amount of lubricant in and around the anus, and on the item to be inserted. Use a water-based lubricant with a rich, velvety texture, such as LUX Cream Lubricant; or the long-lasting, Silicone Lubricant. Reapply as needed.
  6. Ease into it – Start by massaging the opening of the anus in circular motions. Once relaxed and slightly stimulated, gently press the anal ring so that it opens naturally. As you work your way inside, mind the curved angle. Readjust as needed.
  7. Be smart – Only insert items that are 100% clean; and specifically designed for anal penetration. There are many options to choose from, including the simple Playful Plug and the multi-stimulating Triple Tickle Dolphin. (Anal toys should never be used for vaginal penetration.) Clean your toys directly after use with Clean & Simple™ Adult Toy Cleanser.

Intimacy Enhancers

10 Apr

One thing you never learned in sex education or from your mother is that intimacy enhancers are just as important to your sex life as beauty products are to your skin.

Think about your bathroom drawer or counter. How many bottles of anti-aging products, skin lotions and toners do you have? Think about your cosmetics case or bag. How many bronzers, blushes, lipsticks and mascaras are in there?

Just like you use beauty enhancers to make you feel and look more beautiful and confident, intimacy enhancers are also used to improve sensuality and sexual confidence. And what are intimacy enhancers? Like beauty products, there are many intimacy enhancers on the market and they consist of six basic categories:

  • Genital Stimulants
  • G-spot Stimulants
  • Lubricants
  • Vaginal Tightening
  • Topical Delay for the Penis
  • Anal Desensitizing

Genital Stimulants – Pure Satisfaction®is a genital stimulant designed to inspire arousal for both men and women and is also Passion Parties’ number one selling product and featured on the daytime medical show “The Doctors.” Why? Well, as Dr. Jennifer Berman, Director of Female Urology and Sexual Medicine at the Rodeo Drive Women’s Health Center in Beverly Hills said, “Because it works.” Genital stimulants are applied to the genital area prior to foreplay in order to promote sexual response, stimulation and arousal. You may not be “in the mood” at first, but a genital stimulant like Pure Satisfaction will change that.

G-spot Stimulants – While genital stimulants can create excitement on the outer regions of the genitals, they are not designed for female internal stimulation. A G-spot stimulant, such as Passion Parties’ G-Spot Crème, is designed to engorge the G-spot, making it easier to locate, stimulate and increase the likelihood for G-spot orgasm. Most women find it difficult to explore their G-spot and achieve orgasm. G-spot Crème resolves that problem. It’s pH balanced for a woman’s body.

Lubricants – It’s simple: wetter is better. Age, hormonal cycles, stress, pregnancy and other factors can all hinder a woman’s ability to create her own natural lubricant. Using a sexual lubricant during sex simply makes it more enjoyable and takes the pressure off both men and women.

Vaginal Tightening – Some women need assistance with increasing the snug feeling that many men desire. A vaginal tightening gel such as Tighten Up™ can maintain tightness of entry.

Topical Delay – Some men need assistance, too. A safe, topical cream such as Stay Hard helps men stay in control and keeps their erection lasting longer.

Anal Desensitizing – For couples who enjoy anal play, an anal desensitizing product like Topical Ease™ can assist by making penetration smooth and pleasurable. It slightly desensitizes wherever it is applied making anal play more enjoyable.

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Why Men Should Love Not Fear Their Lady’s Sex Toys

26 Mar

If your girlfriend or wife expresses interest in using or sex toy, or if you have found out that she has being using one, do not be alarmed. The use of a sex toy does not mean that she is not satisfied in the relationship. Nor does it mean that you should feel intimidated by her vibrator in any way. The use of sex toys has become more popular with women who are in relationships too. However, there have been times when a woman has returned her adult product because her husband or boyfriend was upset that she purchased one in the first place. Using a sex toy is not necessarily an indication of dissatisfaction in her current relationship. It can actually have its benefits. Before you start to feel that you are in competition with her new bedroom buddy, here are some reasons why her use of sex toys can be a positive thing.

Using sex toys can allow her to discover what kind of stimulation feels best for her.

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There are so many different types of sex toys available from traditional vibrators to clitoral and anal vibrators. When she uses these products, she can discover what type of stimulation works best for her. Plus, if she is having difficulty achieving an orgasm, your wife or girlfriend can start to feel frustrated with herself and potentially feel there is something wrong with her. However, she may find out that she is more responsive to clitoral stimulation which can be incorporated into your intimate moments. Using sex toys will help her and you understand what feels best for her and therefore, improve the overall experience in the bedroom.

Her sex toys will never replace you.

As much as you may be a little bit intimidated by her sex toy, there is no reason to feel as if you are in competition with it. A sex toy will never provide the warmth, intimacy, and love that you can provide her. As much as a sex toy can give her a lot of satisfaction, a sex toy will never replace a partner.

Sex Toys can add more excitement and pleasure into your bedroom fun.

If your partner is using sex toys, she may be more open to experimenting in the bedroom, which means more pleasure for the both of you. For example, she may be more open to trying light bondage, or using a vibrating erection ring with you during sexual intercourse. Her using a sex toy does not mean that you cannot be included. You can offer to use her vibrator or dildo on her as part of foreplay. Or, if your partner is feeling frisky, she may provide you with a show while you enjoy watching her use it on herself.

Remember, just because she wants to use a sex toy or is currently using one does not mean that you are not pleasing her or that you are not enough for her. Instead of feeling threatened by it, share in the pleasure with her.

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