Adventures in Anal Play

22 Apr

adventures-in-anal-play

Exploring the backdoor of romance is a common and acceptable form of lovemaking among today’s modern couples. Anal play can offer a new and different pleasure sensation; “naughty” excitement due to its “taboo” reputation; trust-building and communication between partners; and, of course, triple pleasure when combined with clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

The anus is interconnected with the pelvic muscles and holds a large concentration of nerve endings. This makes it an extremely sensitive area. And, just as the PC muscles contract rhythmically during orgasm, so do the anal muscles. With the right kind of anal stimulation, women can experience unparalleled pleasure too.

While anal play is not for everyone, many have a bit of curiosity when it comes to this type of booty bliss. But (no pun intended), this curiosity is often accompanied by questions and hesitations.

There are two things to keep in mind when it comes to anal play:

  • Penile penetration isn’t your only option. If you find yourself feeling shy, begin with rimming whereby the outer edges of the anal opening are stimulated. Once you feel more comfortable, you can advance to penetration with a finger or a toy before moving on to anal intercourse.
  • The pleasure goes both ways. Men can also enjoy anal penetration due to their version of the G-spot – the prostate gland, which can be found and massaged along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body.

Feeling adventurous? Follow these tips to get started:

  1. Freshen up – Be clean and confident by taking a warm bubble bath infused with Refreshing Bath & Shower Crème.
  2. Start aroused – Stimulate your favorite hot spots, such as the clitoris and G-spot, before you even start. Pure Satisfaction® and G-Spot Crème can help.
  3. Experiment solo – Before choosing to introduce anal play to your partner, try a few sessions alone. Use a beginner-friendly stimulator with a graduated tip like Jet Black, so you can work your way into it.
  4. Relax – When exposed to any kind of anal penetration, the body’s natural reaction is to tense up… immediately prompting the sphincter muscles around the anus to close. Focus your breath and visualize pleasurable sensations.
  5. Lube up – Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating or elastic, and its opening is much smaller. You’ll need a considerable amount of lubricant in and around the anus, and on the item to be inserted. Use a water-based lubricant with a rich, velvety texture, such as LUX Cream Lubricant; or the long-lasting, Silicone Lubricant. Reapply as needed.
  6. Ease into it – Start by massaging the opening of the anus in circular motions. Once relaxed and slightly stimulated, gently press the anal ring so that it opens naturally. As you work your way inside, mind the curved angle. Readjust as needed.
  7. Be smart – Only insert items that are 100% clean; and specifically designed for anal penetration. There are many options to choose from, including the simple Playful Plug and the multi-stimulating Triple Tickle Dolphin. (Anal toys should never be used for vaginal penetration.) Clean your toys directly after use with Clean & Simple™ Adult Toy Cleanser.

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