Say Hello to My Little Friend!!- Introducing Your Partner to Toys

10 Sep

While you may have using vibrators, dildos and other sex toys to pamper and pleasure yourself for years, it’s quite possible that your current lover has never been exposed to such devices. Everyone’s level of sexploration is different. So before your try to incorporate We-Vibe II (or any other toy) into your lovemaking, don’t assume anything. If you and your partner have never used a toy while having sex, talk about it first, rather than just surprising your playmate during an intimate moment. Here are some tips:

1. Begin the conversation by showing your partner a Passion Parties catalog.  Seeing photos of sensual toys and products in the comfort of your home may be less intimidating than seeing them in person at a public sex toy shop.

2. Reassure your lover that a toy is merely an enhancement to your love making experience that your partner is completely irreplaceable. The use of a toy would never take the place of your special playmate. You know that, but make sure your lover realizes it, too.

3. Using a sex toy requires that both lovers trust one another. Therefore, incorporating a c-ring or vibrator into your lovemaking repertoire takes your intimacy to a whole new level. So besides increasing your sexual pleasure by using a Passion Toy while making love, you’ll also be deepening your romantic feelings for one another.

4. Start out small and slow. Now is not the time to whip out OMG. Instead, begin with a bullet and demonstrate to your lover how, where and why you use it.

5. Be flexible. Now, we’re not talking about sex positions here. We mean, be open-minded. What you think is the perfect toy to play with may not be something that turns on your partner. And that’s okay talk to one another openly, honestly and without judgement. Through dialogue, you two will find a toy that meets both your needs.

6. There is no deadline.  Don’t think that just because you have opened the door to communicating about sex toys (and congratulations to you for doing so) that you must begin your explanation that night or the next day. Your lover will probably need time to allow the introduction to percolate. Give your partner all the time necessary. Passion Parties  and our sensual products are not going anywhere including myself, your Passion Diva! 🙂

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