Backdoor Fun

9 Nov

Does the thought of anal play make you blush? You could be missing out.

More and More women (and men) are finding that booty action can be bliss…bliss…BLISS!!

Discover the secret behind this sexual craze, and tips for your own backdoor adventure. WOO HOO!!

-40% of women enjoy anal penetration.

-Jet Black- Your Favorite anal toy according to a recent “thought spot” poll.

-Triple Tickle Dolphin- Our #1 selling anal toy in the month of July.

The “What”

Anal play offers couples an alternative avenue for sexual exploration; and may involve anything from rimming (whereby the outer edges of the anal opening are stimulated), to anal penetration by finger, toy or penis. The primary focus of this month’s Passion Pointers is on anal penetration.

The “Why”

It is well known that men enjoy anal penetration due to their version of the G-spot- the prostate gland. But, what’s in it for women? The answers lay within…

The anus is interconnected with the pelvic muscles and holds a large concentration of nerve endings. This makes it an extremely sensitive area. And, just as the PC muscles contract rhythmically during orgasm, so do the anal muscles. With the right kind of anal stimulation, women can experience unparalleled pleasure too.

Anal play can offer a new and different pleasure sensation; “naughty” excitement due to its “taboo” reputation; trust-building and communication between partners; and of course, triple pleasure when combined with clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

The “How”

Follow these tips to get started:

1. Freshen up- Be clean and confident by taking a hot bubble bath infused with the new and improved Plumeria RT Luxurious Bath and Shower Creme.

2. Start aroused– stimulate our favorite hot spots, such as the clitoris and G-spot, before you even start. Pure Satisfaction, Gspot creme, and We Vibe II can help.

3. Experiment solo– Before choosing to introduce anal play to your partner, try a few session alone. Use  a beginner-friendly stimulator with a graduated tip like Jet Black, so you can work your way into it. After a few sessions, it’ll be easier to open up (booth mentally and physically) to the stimulation of a partner.

4. Relax- When exposed to any kind of anal penetration, the body’s natural reaction to tense up…immediately prompting the sphincter muscles around the anus to close. Begin your anal exploration in a zen state- of- mind. Remain relaxed during the activity by focusing on the breath and visualizing pleasurable sensations.

5. Lube up- Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating or elastic., and it opening is much smaller. You’ll need a considerable amount of lubricant around the anus, and on the item to be inserted.  Use a thick water-based lubricant, such as Ultra Glide Gel, or the long lasting, silicone-based Slip ‘n Slide. Reapply as needed (plan on needing a lot!).

6. Ease into it- Start by massaging the opening of the anus in circular motions. Once relaxed and slightly stimulated, gently press the anal ring so that it opens natuarally. As you work your way inside, mind the curved angle. Readjust as needed.

7. Be smart- Only insert item that are 100% clean and specifically designed fo anal penetration. There are many options to choose from, including the  simple Playful Plug, and multi-stimulating Triple Tickle Dolphin. (Anal Toys should never be used for vaginal penetration.) Clean your toys diectly after use with Clean and Simple Adult Toy cleanser.

For many couples, anal play is spicy addition to their sexual repertoire. However, it’s not for everyone. Only YOU can decide if it’s right for you.


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